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no longer live in an ideal world. The social structure has evolved
to the extent that you have to wrestle with stress and anxiety to
fight for your survival in the changing socio-economic conditions,
pay mortgage for a large house, buy a better car than your neighbor
and worry yourself sick for not being able to get a coveted promotion
or accumulate wealth. The list is endless and so are its consequences.
In the earlier days, things were simpler: people lived in a modest
environment, there were less broken families, people helped each
other in the times of need and above all, there was not so much
commercialism in the world. Inhabitants were not worried about having
to buy a powerful satellite dish to watch that mindless soap opera
stuff or brand name clothes to cover their deep rooted inferiority
complex (some psychologists speculate that a lot of people in North
America are suffering from low self-esteem). Above all, the ghost
of individualism, as it is pervasive in North American and Western
continent, was not so pronounced yet.
But things have changed. In the last three or four decades, North
America has become an impressive success story: income has doubled,
housing is better, medical care is more efficient (unless you are
on a waitlist for a major medical procedure), food is surplus, social
security is ensured and the average longevity of people have risen.
Nevertheless, there is a dark streak to these glamorous statistics.
Since 1960, divorce rates have also doubled, teen suicide has tripled,
recorded violent crime has quadrupled, prison population has quintupled,
and babies born to unmarried parents have sextupled.
People are more stressed and depressed than ever. In a study published
in Canadian Chronic Diseases, the number of people suffering from
depression has gone up sharply (71% increase over previous years
and authors say that their estimate is conservative). These two
faces of same reality do not make sense. Proverbially, we are living
in the best and worst of the times in the same epoch. Rapidly changing
family, economic and social conditions are generating a lot of stress
and making it as one among the major killers in the modern world.
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